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Divorce with Children in Delaware

How divorce affects children in Delaware. Custody, support, and co-parenting strategies. Delaware follows equitable distribution.

Property Type

Equitable

Filing Fee

$165

Median Cost

$9,000–$38,000

Annual Divorces

3,500+

Understanding Divorce with Children in Delaware

Delaware courts determine all custody matters using the best interest of the child standard. This means the court evaluates each parent’s ability to provide a stable, nurturing environment, the child’s existing relationships and routines, and any special needs or preferences (for children old enough to express them).

Child support in Delaware is calculated using the Melson Formula. Both parents' incomes are combined, and the state's guideline table determines the total obligation. Each parent's share is proportional to their income.

Delaware recognizes both legal custody (decision-making authority) and physical custody (where the child lives). Joint legal custody is common; physical custody arrangements vary based on the family’s circumstances. The filing fee to initiate custody proceedings in Delaware is $165.

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Common Questions

How long do you have to live in Delaware to file for divorce?
Delaware requires 6 months of residency before you can file for divorce. Del. Code tit. 13 §1505 governs the filing requirements.
Is Delaware a community property or equitable distribution state?
Delaware follows equitable distribution rules, meaning the court divides marital assets fairly but not necessarily equally.
How much does a divorce cost in Delaware?
Filing fees in Delaware range from $165. The median total cost is approximately $9,000 for uncontested divorces and $38,000 for contested cases.
How long does a divorce take in Delaware?
Delaware has a mandatory waiting period of no mandatory waiting period. Uncontested divorces typically finalize in 2–4 months, while contested cases can take 12–18 months or longer.
How is child support calculated in Delaware?
Delaware uses the Melson Formula, a modified income shares model with a self-support reserve. The formula considers both parents' incomes, number of children, health insurance costs, and childcare expenses.

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This page provides general information about divorce with children in Delaware and is not legal advice. Verify current statutes with Del. Code tit. 13 §1505 or consult a licensed Delaware attorney. Last reviewed March 2026.